Don't give her orgasm!

If you do, then you are fu*ked.

Even if she

Asks for more,

Seduce you,

Give you the dream of pleasure.

Let her want more of you.

JUST DENY.

She feeds and grows on orgasms.

The more you feed her, the more you lose your individuality, mind, and sanity.

You feel less connected to yourself.

You become insecure.

You kill your potential.

I am not talking about your chick.

I am talking about your

Inner bitch.

Our inner bitch. We all have her within.

The inner bitch is the fear—the wrong fear that doesn't let you take that step.

If we listen too much to her, then she controls us.

and believe me, she doesn't want any good for you.

She only wants you to be in your comfort zone with your hands in your pants.

She will talk to you like the nicest person in the world (“like they care for you"). DUH!

“You should not go to the gym today.”

“You can blame them.”

“People will judge you.”

“Have a smoke; you are stressed already.”

“You are tired (after working for 17 minutes)."

“Do it tomorrow.”

“Why work hard? We are going to die anyway.”

You can convince yourself that these statements are true, but guess what? You know it’s a lie. It’s not a one-time thing. Don’t try to negotiate; don’t get into arguments; she will try to stop you; she will lure you.

Once you listen to her, you will do what she wants. You will skip your workouts, your studies, and your practices.

You start with a small lie, and now you cover it up for years and years, and when your partner finds out, you don’t accept it. You still try to cover it up with some random shitty arguments and blame it on them.

You will search for shortcuts, and six months later, you will realise there are none, and you will start negative self-talk, lurking in the past, crying about wasting time, and wasting time by crying.

This loop doesn’t end, and then you say I don’t have any luck. This is who I am. You make this your identity.

It becomes a habit of crying and blaming others; you get comfortable with the losses; you get comfortable with the situations; and you learn to live with them rather than trying the way out.

You stop working hard and pushing yourself. You start becoming delusional and wait for someone to save your ass, to give you a sudden opportunity, to expect a diamond coming out of your ass while taking a shit and changing your world.

Eventually, you stop trying. You just live it.

But this doesn't need to happen if you do exactly what I tell you to do. (You’re welcome)

Fu*k her, dude. Shut her mouth. But in a different way (a more badass way than BDSM).

Fuck her by not fucking her.

Basically, don’t give a fuck about her.

Starve her. ignore her.

Like you ignore your career (kidding)

Ignore her, like she doesn’t exist.

but only ignoring it doesn’t make it right.

This is how you fuck her by not actually fucking her.

1. Do the opposite: whatever she says, don’t do it. You need to know what's good for you. Listen to your good voice, your inner beast, focus on your goals, and be in the process. If she says “do it later,” do it now. If she says, “Have a pizza instead of oatmeal,” have your oatmeal with extra peanut butter. Like the movie - How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days.

    

2. Do the hard things: take the stairs instead of the elevator, lift 5 pounds extra, run an extra mile, read 5 pages more, and work 2 more hours. Do the things you think are hard.

    

3. Do the things you have been ignoring: complete your project, start your newsletter if you are planning, ask that girl out, join that music class you wanted to, and sort out your documents. Start with the small things that you have been stalling on for a long time, and do them today.

    

4. Make a fuck it list: I have one. It’s a bucket list. But fuckitlist makes it more urgent; the bucket list seems so far from now, which gives me the “after retirement” vibe. Yesterday, I slashed out a goal.

    

5. Believe: You are meant for more; you deserve more; don’t settle for less. Believe that you are going to drive that car; you are going to have a wonderful relationship; you are going to have an attractive physique. Have high standards; don’t be afraid to think of yourself at the top of the mountain. If you don’t believe in yourself, no one else will. Do more actions.

    

P.S. Share this with your friends who are still giving orgasms to her bitch.

and remember THE best part?

1. If you disagree with me,

2. Have any points to add?

3. Want to share ideas or discuss your problems?

4. Or want to debate!?

   Feel free to reply.

See ya ;)